And I see this everywhere. The four of us in the room all came from the same school. Same age. Same opportunities. Three wheeling in heavy debt, trynna keep it up with side hustles. One with a positive balance who never needs to be a corporate slave again.
Then feel proud for yourself and for what you have truly achieved, without being in debt (the most important aspect of your financial life). You know your limits and until where you can go on the present moment, so that is a wise and smart mindset you have. It doesn't mean you won't be able to own a house, a fancy car or to travel around the world. It just mean the time for those deeds hasn't come yet.
The biggest problem of paying attention to someone else's life is that the individual ends getting into despair because he doesn't have what the thinks his neighboor or friend have. He wants to reproduce a hypothetical reality he just knows from the screen of his smartphone, through social medias' apps.
Focus (on your own journey), patience, determination and self-awareness are the key.