From the title of your topic, it shows that you don't understand what wealth is all about. If not, you wouldn't say that you are wealthy and unsuccessful because all wealthy people are successful. Having a house is not a liability but an investment because you can be renting the house and get paid annually. You have also conquered shelter and wouldn't have a rent responsibility.
an individual with abundant material wealth, such as a great deal of money and valuable possessions

[Wikipedia] A wealthy person is an individual with abundant material wealth, such as a great deal of money and valuable possessions.
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