We need to be held responsible for our own actions and not to the blame of someone. When I am gambling, I am the one who will suffer the loss, therefore, I love to follow my instinct and forget about anything someone tells me. If I lose, I know that it was my fault. Rather than putting the blame on someone.
That should be the attitude of all of us when we play, I know that when we are starting in the game we tend to make many mistakes, among them not recognizing the errors, it is heroic to recognize our mistakes and learn, personally whenever I play and I am given advice I am the one who decides if I follow them or not, and if I lose it is my fault, not that of others, that is how it should be.