It was deep for me listening to their conversation and I thought of bringing it to the community to get the thoughts and opinions of parents the community this. Are there parents with similar experience, tell us what you think. Will you for fear of losing bond with your child living to grow up with another relative refuse to release your child syc to you knowing that the child will be having a better life and education over there.
The reason for them to foster the child and take care of his upkeep was explicitly said and it’s not bad seeing someone wanting to take care some of your financial burden if you’re finding it hard to cater for the child and others, including the family basic needs. I feel it should get to some extent before you’ll settle for such because of the nature of how our society is turning into. When your child is away from you, exactly the close bond between the parent and the child will be reduced and will go to the parent that fosters them.
Depending on the nature of the parents that are fostering your child will depend on how your child will act towards you in the future. They play a vital role on how the child will join relationship with closed and far relatives. If you’re not that broke and can cater for your child as you should to the best of your ability, allowing them to be fostered out is not something you should do. Only you can take better control and care for your children as you best want.