In my country, it is pretty common for parents to have kids then think that their kids are their hope. That is because they get kids without being financially ready for it yet and then they just eventually hope that when their kids grow up they will be the ones to build wealth for them. But is having kids the reason why people end up financially worse over the years? Do not get me wrong, kids are a blessing but realistically speaking they are expensive. Is it fair to yourselves and to the kids to have kids just to leave it up to them to be wealthy and let them grow up through hardships?
Having kids is never a mistake and I don’t think that anyone who has one ever regretted bringing them into this world because of the hardship they’re facing or may face in the future. Kids are a blessings to parents if they trail on the right path of life and not derail becoming the worst version of themselves in the world. You are not at fault if your kids don’t get the best of world you can’t provide for them if at all you tried your best to give them one.
Bringing up kids without plans before bringing them into this world is not right, plans do fail sometimes but having one will make life easier for them to pass through instead of passing through the hardship phase of life. Kids born with silver spoon enjoy their lives more because of the wealth already there for them to grow together with. Fingers are not equal and we can’t be blamed entirely for what we don’t have. Sometimes where parents can’t reach, their kids will pave way to achieve that and make their parents proud and that’s what they’re called blessing to the parents also.