It is important to learn from the past but I don’t let past failure become like a dark cloth still controlling me.
If the past failure still controls you, it means you fail to learn from the mistake. Well, just forget the failure! You only need to remember avoiding the same mistake.
Although winning helps me to recover from loss but if the win is not in sight I keep playing under my own influence and not that to prove my past failures wrong.
If it is your focus, it just indicates that you don't enjoy the gambling process and don't understand the nature of gambling. Trying to recover losses in gambling is careless way. It even leads to more losses at the end of the day.
I also accepts defeat and work on them.
This is good. It means you have strong mentality as a gambler.