It is gone and not coming back, there is a lesson here if you are buying and holding coins, no one have the right to know a single alphabet of your recovery seed, not even the companies that made the wallets.
This is not supposed to be a conversation in the first place because it is even foolishness to allow a third party get access to your seed phrase. it is not even a matter of right or wrong because when you talk about right, it will make it look like a third party have any access to your seed phrase.
My coin is my coin and mine alone. my seed phrase is mine and mine alone. unlike the centralized banking system where some of your private information is held by banks, with bitcoin, you are your own everything and no one has the right to ask you for information related to it regardless the reason they bring forward.