Men are created to be stronger than women and since they are created that way it means they are the provider, in BC and AC. Humans where using hands to work in other to feed and this works are farm works that requires strength and this strength men has it more than women and so the men where very active in all this farm work and since a man and a woman needs to come together to make children and the woman was the one to get pregnant and the man was made to go and work since his also the strongest and when the woman starts having children those children needs to be taken care of and that was what the woman was mostly doing She was also helping the man in farm work in her own little strength so women where created to take care of the home while the man was to work and feed the wife and children.
And as a man if you are providing for your wife you will feel happy doing that men love women to depend on them while women love to depend on men nature solved everything perfectly, if you are a man know you are a provider however you still don't have to please a woman and displease yourself.