Please read the OP or a couple pages back...Your Dreamcoin.conf file must be a captial "D" not dreamcoin.conf, that should fix it and make sure you have addnode in it.
Just added a SubReddit for Dreamcoin here:
http://www.reddit.com/r/DreamcoinZerocoin is implemented into Dreamcoin, Zerocoin is still in alpha stages with libzerocoin, read more about zerocoin on zerocoin.org
I purchased the domain dreamcoin.me today, I will be setting up a site on it soon!

, That will have a lot more information.