Yep it's disgusting. Ebay fees and Paypal fees? Highway robbery!
Best to not list things as a 'Buy it now' as they take a decent percentage of them sales.
The trouble is if you put them on as an auction your item is likely to go for pennies/cents. I usually like to put items as BIN on with a bit of a premium price and check the 'make an offer' option and wait to see what I get, but I'd rather list items other places first, but unfortunately ebay is still probably one of the best places to sell your shit.