Got a message from joel about my staking problem all he said might be a firewall problem but other then that he can't help
Can anyone at all think of anything i could have on my pc that would not allow this to work like my router blocking it or windows firewall blocking it anything.
Ok, try to delete all files except wallet.dat in roaming folder. Prior to that copy/backup wallet.dat to some secure place. Then run the wallet qt again, let it sync, wait for sync. Leave your wallet open for longer time unlocked.
I had staking delayed for more than one day once, but after that I got mined coins.