tried to send 47 darkcoins and it says I need to pay a fee of 4.1 darkcoins (I tried to send ~70 but it said transaction too large). ?!
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Use DarkSend checkbox on the right side of the wallet...
I may just be blind, but I don't think there is any "use darksend" option on my wallet, I am trying to find it but really don't see anything. Where is it exactly? 9.3.3