I didn't invest because frankly I didn't see the thread prior to IPO closure.
How is this Nxt fault if you didn't see the IPO that was open to everyone for 2 months? As for Nem, even if we assume there are no sock puppets and it really has 3000 stakeholders, the world population is 7 billion, so that is very "unfair" distribution too. You can never have "fair distribution". BTC has even worse distribution with just 1 person holding 10%. What matters is future adoption and use by wider community, merchants and general public.