So, unless you're a ... hermit ... you would want an Anonymous coin, so the whole world doesn't see every ... purchase you make...
I'm a hermit BECAUSE being one gives me more privacy than the socially-dependent shaved apes...
In our house, we call them neurotypical, LOL. May I suggest you use the ignore button more? I think you get a bit too angry for your own good

I reindexed twice but I'm never on the same block as
http://explorer.darkcoin.io/chain/DarkCoin, first was 5 ahead, now I'm 7 blocks behind? Is that normal?
Using the debug to check on the difficulty it seems to be in the ballpark.
Oh hell, I just checked and I'm 3 behind! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! 75120!