Today i managed to make this new windows wallet work, i want to share with others how.
create a file called: unobtanium.conf (there is mistake in first post when saying unobtainium.conf)
paste the following to this file:


maxconnections=100
addnode=miningpool.co
addnode=un.coinmine.pl
addnode=bit.usr.sh
addnode=rockchain.info
addnode=uno.smalltimeminer.com
addnode=coinex.pw
addnode=uno.ispace.co.uk
addnode=blackgold.pro
addnode=uno.crypto-expert.com
addnode=p2pool.org
addnode=unobtanium.miners-point.com
addnode=uno.port-x.de
addnode=poolparty.port-x.de
addnode=un.ispace.co.uk

and put this file to unobtanium wallet folder (not the appdata/roaming/ as many thinks)