A little offtopic:
i updated the NXT client to 1.1.4 and checked if i received my NEM stake token. And it was right there. But in the right upper corner you have ´send nxt´ and ´send message´.
It seems that these are two separate things. Is it possible to send nxt coins with a message attached to it? (Like an invoice number).
no i dont think so.. you will be able to i think.. but not yet!