Also any nodes to get this thing to sync fully?
Did you try these two from the OP?
coffeecoin.conf
addnode=107.178.67.78
addnode=212.114.59.109
yes. I actually even get a few network connections (9 atm), but the thing still won't fully sync, nore can I successfully sent any coins (kinda important for doing the swap).
Is the logo shown in your wallet a lightish color or a brown color?
The latest wallet has the brown logo, and the older version has the lightish color. I think you need the latest wallet to sync.