The winning bidder still hasn't replied to me.
We'll give it a go by the weekend if they don't.
Where was the reserve price stated? Wouldn't 4mbtc be the next winning bid? Or are you creating another auction?
I think the OP is going to try and relist this weekend. Normally auctions take the 2nd highest bid but in bitcoinland auctions tend to work differently

I for one am neg trusting user for fake bidding
I'd do the same but unless he's active in other threads there's no reason to actually suggest he is avoiding the auction.. Who knows what has happened