But I just want to buy my first bitcoin, why should I do a chargeback?
Can I pay in "sending money to friends / relatives", no problem.
Can you help me? Now I have the funds in the account, otherwise I would have paid otherwise.
Paypal is big into helping scammers. If they can't verify the items were sent they just default on the side of the purchaser. This is why no one deals with PayPal. So I purchase some bitcoins, say I didn't receive them and get my money book. Literally the old trick in the online book.
If you are serious and not out to scamming, take WU or something that isn't reversible. Or use coinbase ?