I can not find this wallet.bat file to save my life I dont have any hidden files either.

God it sucks to be new
you have to go to control panel, under folder option and click to make hidden folder and drive visible.
then go to C: drive under user/yourcomputername/appdata/roaming/cloakcoin
your wallet file is wallet.Dat. not bat
save that file to somewhere safe. that's your wallet backup