Holy cow this is frustrating.........thanks though to all that have tried to help those of us that cannot sync our wallets!

Everyone seems to have their own opinion of what the config should be named, it seems people have their wallets working with numerous config file names.  This is very strange as I am pretty sure the wallet would only recognize the proper file name.

To me it seems "axis.conf" is the correct file name to use.......but I only believe this because the wallet at least shows the number of blocks it has left, no other config file names show this.  Still, this does not seem to get any active connections so I am lost at how to get this damn thing to sync.  I will try the overnight thing and see how it goes I guess.

Thanks again to all for your replies!!