I had 4 stakes that remained unconfirmed and rejected by the chain . You should be fine just using the repairwallet command in the console .  This will purge your stuck stakes and you will get new stakes swiftly probably higher than the previous ones , this has been my case with all stuck stakes . Don't move your coins around to keep them ready for staking . Since the update to the latest wallet and applying the repair command I had no trouble nor reason to complain , staking happened in good amount & in time .   
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i did the repair wallet command a week ago as well as yesterday trying to get it kick started, i haven't moved the coins since they were first deposited to the wallet after the stake announcement, guess i will trying it again and hope it works

btw thanks for responding