One doesnt blame a rape victim because she was raped do they ? Mizerydearia admits he took the wallet . Should be relatively simple to assume who the victim is here and that there is a loss involved.
Actually, in modern society, this is exactly what happens. If you're female, raped by a family member, and for years after growing pains, speak about it to your family, it is more likely that you will be punished by your family more than any punishments directed by the person that raped you. Ideally this is strange or unacceptable, but realistically, it is commonly practiced to this day.
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