Bit of advice - stop rehashing the past as there were many mistakes made by many people and I admit I certainly wasn't helping the situation but what I ask is that you would embrace XC and think about the future. We need to be positive, and set an example for the newbies and support each other. Give me a big HUG! I know you want to. Ha!
You were the one that went on insulting people when I was trying to help you... You should know EXACTLY why date issue is a super sensitive matter. Learn to not insult others when they are trying to help in the future.