OK, so here is the last thing I found
http://ultracoinpool.info/ is the pool I m working with I have made several withdrawals and all of them get through. So far so good, however when I check the Tx in the blockchain they wont show up...so one could guess that the entire pool and me are forked. But then again I can receive coins from cryptsy and anyone else (and those do show in the blockchain bwt) so there is a very weird thing going here... could be at my end, thats true...but what about the pool?