Wow. Your demand are pretty high. This party will be pretty awesome. But you know what? It will be better if you crowdfunding. This way you will earn a lot of money. Som guy on kickstarter earned more than 100k $ for his potato salad.
Who would send money to make someone have a luxury party? Its already hard to make people fund entrepreneur projects
And that 100k potato salad, I can't believe this is not some kind of money laundering.