if you really wanted to earn a money then spare your birthday party its july now and your birthday is on november so its 4 months from now you said its hard to find a job there and it will take you a minimum 2 months to be in a member status so you will only have 2 months remaining if you only wanted to work just because of your birthday party then its hopeless a lot of people with the same age as you work their ass off because they are thinking about the future

so i think its better to just have a great house dinner with your close friends and family to save some money then use the money that you save to get out in your village/country/town or whatever it is to find a better oppurtunity rather to have a one day party with some random people that will only attend because of the free foods and booze just be practical