the best example are all the miners mining at ghash.io with 51+% am i right?

pos/pow have the same problems
no you are not right at all..
miners having 51% of the power to produce coins for very limited period of time is not the same thing as stake holders with 51% of the coins and the power to create 51% of all future coins for eternity.
this is why the vericoin devs had to take such drastic action when someone had a mere 30% of the coins.
also a pool having 51% of the hashing power is not the same thing as a single entity having that much power because miners would simply move if the power was being abused.
pos and pow have very different problems.