Basically this can be sorted out really quickly.

You can start by just getting a copy of the wallet and sending it to me or genjix or phantomcircuit or theymos, ample choice there. And really that takes the better part of 5 minutes, which includes digging it up from backups.

That step on it's own is pretty big and is 1/2 the battle, in and of itself would remove the thief label (that you've volunteered to wear). Really you can't be trusted with anything in the bitcoin community until this gets sorted out.

So step one, get the wallet and send on to trusted third party.

And then we can move on from there.

Nefario.