There seems to be some traction now after lots and lots of restarts
so your wishes may come true after all
now past 8000 blocks

Try this:
"What I did is backup my wallet.bat and delete
everything (include wallet.dat) then install new wallet. Do not copy your backup wallet.bat to the new installed wallet yet, wait until it completed sync then copy your wallet.bat to it. If it stuck during syncing just open and close wallet method. What I found if the wallet is out of syn then it will never be sync again. it see the block OK but can't download it, the connection and download keep kick it out. Hope this fix soon."
The coins that were in stake not appeared. Just typing "repairwallet" in the console and they reappeared