Hey dudes and dudettes, so i have a problem i don't know how to make a lady i know like me. I know i'm great with girls, the ones that fck me without hesitation, but ladies are a whole different story, they are smart and don't go for a guy like me. So i was wondering, how to i get her to like me? I'm not talking about getting her in bed, i'm talking about a long term relationship. I really like her, so any help is appreciated 
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.Well for starters, don't call her 'dudette'. Yeah, it's supposed to be funny and everything we get it. Just imagine she isn't a woman and you are just hanging out with a friend of yours. If you can't seem to find common ground in the things you like doing, I can assure you that the relationship will be empty.