Ok will do that. Have another stuck one right after I posted the last thing. He doesn't want to destruct. (i tried destructing 2 of my same players in the same square at the same time). I'm trying to kill my players off and collect the coins while awaiting disaster.
http://imgur.com/ByLIqnOJohnny and freddy had 2 different colours?
using my miniwallet you can delete the pending transaction but won't help much, since you'll have next transaction stuck because you have "dirty" coins in wallet at this point (double spended)
Same color. They right around the spawn area on the yellow side. Herbie is also frozen, although I dont think he had anything to do with destruct.
It doesn't have to do with a player necessarily being involved directly in the destruct. Once you get 'dirty' coin(s) in the wallet then whenever another player tries to move, the dirty coin gets used for the transaction fee. Of course it won't get accepted in the block and you are stuck in pending.
Another pending I get (but less frequently) is noticeable by watching the log and when you try to move/destruct you will see something like "pending transaction already exists for that name" (maybe the client shows an error, but I have my errors turned off). When this happens a transaction does not occur so there is nothing to delete. You just click "go" and nothing happens. Only way I know to fix this is via a rescan (maybe a restart is enough).