I've said it before and I'll say it again: great looking coin and you can see that a lot of work has gone into it. You may want to actually reach out to someone to get the help you need if you're serious. Then if the coin price does go down to something like .00000000001 while you're working on it I would consider finding a way to buy as many coins as possible and give them away like Stellar did so you'll have people interested again. Right now some people see how you avoided help and think you're tanking the market on purpose to buy up coins. I hope whoever does buy them up realizes that they can't make any money on them if people can't trade them. This can not only be saved, but it can still flourish.
Also, dev lives in the Netherlands. If you think he's anonymous you would be wrong.