And so I believe that you have all come to a conclusion and solution.
Also, @bbxx, the 'trust system' is based on trust. It's based on how trustworthy one is, not if you're a scammer.
Made sure to note that I do not trust either bbxx or his "brother". If you want to act like clowns good luck keeping a positive trust rating. It is people like this that make BTC a minefield for consumers and sellers alike.