What's the right node(s) for the main chain? I'm stuck at 64320 after syncing for a while and others are syncing on 65000 and above.
See my earlier reply about height versus trust. The chain with the highest block number may not actually have the highest trust. If you choose a chain with lower trust, once your client becomes aware of a better chain it may change to that one.
I don't know if there's a way to see trust from within the client, but you can find it by searching the debug log for the height number. For example, to search for block 63264, search for
height=63264SetBestChain: new best=00000002effa853469ad height=63264 trust=101388624495 moneysupply=569991.408021 nEffectiveBurnCoins=200663.689991