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Re: So... how do you deal with a problem-child?
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iluvpie60
on 20/08/2014, 20:35:22 UTC
Instead of escalating the situation and trying to get people to leave him undeserved red, you could easily resolve the situation with him. Mutually deleting the negative trust would have squashed it all but you wanna push it cause of ego?


I am ready to resolve it if he wants to. Either way I have moved on and only messaged him because I wanted to resolve it. Maybe he didn't like what I said because he was still understandably upset at me, but I would like to resolve it.

If he doesn't want to that is fine also , sometimes things can't get resolved because one side isn't ready yet. I am not too too sure why it can't be resolved. It is like I said, its not like we traded each other or anything and he got scammed. It is just words on a forum and I have resolved things with other people online way worse than this and way more complicated than this, so I feel like we should both just remove our negative trusts and move on.

Originally, I removed my negative trust on him in good faith and hoped we could mutually conclude this and become better forum dwellers together. I thought we were on the same page since he said I should do that to put forward a good faith effort, which I then did. This time I would likeBitcoinbobbeh to go first then I will remove mine. I just feel like this should be over and done with, especially since it happened over 6 months ago and didn't actually affect anything for either of us. Everyone who saw our profiles only saw we have negative trust if they looked at the "untrusted feedback" section. So nobody even really knew, and if they read through it they saw it was just a disagreement with another forum user. I think what is making bobby mad is that he thought the whole time he showed up as -4 to other users, but he really was showing up at 0/0 neutral.


So now that is all cleared up I think we should just resolve this and concentrate on making the forums better.