You don't need coinssource or cryptoasian to reveal your identity.
But i feel it could be a risky move, because even you have the best intentions something may go "wrong" with the coin, like a hacker finding a way to attack the network, or a massive dump and ppl might blame you for it.
Of course if you really want to bring this coin to the masses like you claim then at some point someone from the massive dev team will have to show up in real life somewhere, like on a conference, explaining the vision. Like the guy from Digibyte or Heavycoin(These are just the wo i remember from memory) or lots of others did. "The masses" are not going to come to your irc channel or bitcointalk

Having to show your face and real life identity is definitely a must when a coin gonna get big. I agree with your point regarding not having to reveal identity to 3rd-party for "trust verification" purposes.
The community and developers themselves will be the PoD.