you have stated that you have private list
i added that (only with curiousminer)
that does not mean that
you stated that you have private list only with curiousminer.
but...
do you know what the difference was between your brother and everyone who received their miners? Only one difference. Your brother never provided his shipping details.
also
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=712480.msg8407246#msg8407246with no denial from your side.