I'm at IP 82.171.127.104 , don't know if it does support incoming. How do i check?
If needed I know how to set up a portforward, but don't know if that is what you mean.
Your node is not reachable so it is not accepting incoming connections - that or it already banned my IP

Can you post the config file? Or do you only need those 3 lines?
If it's supposed to look like this then I'm fine:
listen=0
server=1
daemon=1
rpcuser=you
rpcpassword=pass
rpcallowip=127.0.0.1
rpcallowip=192.168.*.*
Port=8514
RPCPort=18514
connect=70.181.40.178
connect=89.201.186.50
If not... I'll edit to delete this.
That will work.