Adult conversations are about talking, listening and conveying a logical response to the information presented, yes. Not talking and responding with things like "bullshit, crazy, drug addict, etc" Those are all labels, judgments. They are what 4th graders do when they cannot think of an intelligent thing to say.
Dank, dank, dank, you just don't get it do you?
Allow me to insert my judgmental self.
I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it.