I am challenging everyone to find a reason what is behind this attack and hate.
The answer is rather easy to find if you ask me. There are
plenty of XMR fans and, for some reason, not few offensively-minded at that. The competitive nature of the altcoin forum and the "fighting" among the defenders of various altcoins results in attack and/or hate. The more aggressiv a particular project's defenders promote their cause, the more hate they tend to receive accordingly.
(I don't know because I never visit such) There is a flood of trolls in XMR threads. Is it balanced?
You bet they do! You need to get out more, otherwise you'll get a distorted picture of what's going on. Monero is a good coin, but there are many others too, and everyone dumps on everyone else.
Only project that isn't at the moment is superNET. jl777 wants to accept ALL coins, except straight clones that offer nothing.
Guess which coin crew troll jl777 the most? Yep, you guess right ... monero!
WHY? There's a ton of crap coins to troll, it pains me when I see the good coins tearing each other apart.