i tryed all options at official wallet but gives everytime an other walletadres but not the onlinewalletadres where the rsunits were send to
If i am not wrong there is an option to download the wallet file. You have to do something with that to access from the official wallet your address.
You may lookup there forum i am sure there is an info how to do this:
https://nxtforum.org/mynxt-info/I'm not too late to claim my shares right?
Also... I need to get the default NXT wallet or is a 3rd party one just a good? That java wallet for MacOS performs nicely one Linux as well, when I once tried it to see what it was all about.
If you are on the list you can claim it. The best is to use the default NXT wallet