Oh on the sneaky services of court papers, that's just kinda the nature of their business. You should watch pineapple express on crackle, as Seth Rogen does a great parody of it.
www.crackle.com/c/pineapple-expressMe and my husband were laughing our asses off about it. After participating in several .com type businesses (you can't do business for long without being sued by somebody unhappy eventually, every business eventually has to have attorneys on retainer) and each of us having 2 divorces, every time papers show up it's new different kind of hilarity. One lady looked like she was about to deliver a singing telegram, just say "Thank you very much.", wink, and let it work itself out in court. Enjoy that movie, it's free and the commercials are minimal.