oh man, this is exciting to watch, i hope we find out who the real scammer is 
Could be both. One not planning to send the BTC and the other planning to chargeback from the beginning. Who sends that amount of funds to someone so new and no trust?
Will probably never find out, especially when both abandon those accounts and just move onto the next.
i'll be staying here a long time, hopefully eventually building a good reputation and learning as much as possible along the way.
but i wish an admin can check my messages and show that penner DID send me a message and speak to me on skype.
because this is KEY - he said that he DID NOT contact me. and claimed that i photoshopped the message.
1) WHY WOULD I RANDOMLY BLAME PENNER.
2) ADMIN PLEASE CHECK MY MESSAGES AND TELL EVERYBODY IF PENNER MESSAGED ME OR NOT!!!!