"Don't feed the trolls" is key
That's just it, TFM
IS a troll.
I support XMR. I mine it, run the daemon, & donate to devs (small amounts but nonetheless), and I am active in XMR threads, attempting to backup positive contributions and expose BS for what it is.
Yet, TFM, with no basis for his ramblings, is treated as a supporter and peeps like me get labeled at "trolls." I have thick enough skin to get over it, but I can still post and express myself so that some will understand.
Your emotions are entirely understood. Resentment of someone getting to the top
is a common reaction. The usual psychosis is to either vilify or turn the object into an idol. I'd much prefer you not pussy out and meet me on the court instead.
P.S. I am not (at least not intentionally) diminishing your contribution.