If there's a rule of thumb when dealing with girls it that girls always act the opposite they mean to... so whenever a girl says no, she actually means yes. And if she says yes... she really means no...

In your case, she surely wants you. But she prefers you to be less "romantic" and more like a "contemptible" person... yes, they love it! (well, at least here where I live, it works like that)

... they are weird

TLDR: do not ask for it ... simply do it

(disclaimer: past performance is not necessarily indicative of future results)