I also think talking here can't help XMR get adopted at all.
We likely disagree about that. This community has its plusses and minuses but is still important in some ways. For what Monero is trying to do, cute DOGE pics are not effective, and remaining engaged with this community is important. (Other things we might also do entirely independently of this community are also important, and it should not at all be assumed that we need to choose between the two -- again with a larger team and employing teamwork, we can cover a bit more ground.) The are some very well defined reasons for that, but I'm not going to spell them out. Other projects will have to set their own priorities.