What is the big sin here? i simply stipulated the terms of my agreement. I fail to see why this is such a controversial an issue? People make trades and leave feedback all the time. Why am i not allowed to stipulate that in a deal?
Because you were trading to make your trust go up, not do regular trades and have your trust go up by effect like the system is for. One means you're legitimate, one means the exact opposite.
I disagree, but i guess that i have no choice but fall in line, with all of you web bullies forcing my hand. What can i do from here? How do i get the negative trusts removed and start over? is it possible to get a second chance
Your previous posts had made it clear that your only intention of conducting this $5 paypal trade was to obtain positive trust from trusted members. Conducting a trade just to gain positive trust is generally seen as "buying trust". Let's say you did not know this was frowned upon, the correct thing would be to politely message the person who let you negative feedback. You did the exact opposite by crying and insulting people in multiple threads.
You should really listen to the people trying to help you. Don't be so adamant and try looking at your behavior from a different perspective.