can anyone tell me which exchanges are actually accepting ripple?
and don't tell Bitstamp, because I don't want to go trough their verification process
Ripple itself is also an exchange...
Typically you don't need to trade XRP, unless you want to make markets - you can trade whatever you actually want to trade (e.g. BTCUSD or EURUSD or DOGXAU or...)
I saw you post positive things about XRP many times, I take I presume you are a proponent of the xrp platform, I send you one private message concerning said platform and you call it spam. WTF, clearly you need to adjust your spam filter to "don't contact me if I don't contact you".