It's not just different perspectives friend, we are speaking different languages entirely. I speak the language of love, you speak the language of fear. I speak the language of future, you speak the language of past.

Empathy is a language much older than words, look within yourself and find it, and then we can speak truthfully.

I will say the only thing that matters, "I am suffering."

And you will reply, "I suffer too."

And we will see that we are all suffering, and we will begin to imagine ways to live without this suffering,  and our thoughts will flow to a better possible world. And then we will create a new reality as our species has done so many times before. Soon.